Shemale Sexuality: Top, Bottom, Versatile

If you are seriously interested in a relationship with a Shemale you must understand the terms "top", "bottom" and "versatile" with regard to sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse with a shemale is anal intercourse with the exception of Shemales who have undergone sexual reassignment surgery (SRS). Such Shemales have surgically constructed vaginas with which they can engage in sexual intercourse. However, I will be discussing this matter from the point of view of a pre-op transsexual because I am a pre-op transsexual myself and according to the web poll on the right, the overwhelming majority of men who are interested in Shemales prefer Shemales who have a penis.

Most Shemales prefer to be "bottoms" during anal sex. The term bottom refers to someone who plays the passive or receptive roll during anal sex. "versatile" Shemales enjoy playing the passive and active roll during anal sex equally. In other words, a versatile Shemales would enjoy penetrating you anally in addition to being penetrated by you! Shemale "Tops" are the rarest of the three categories. Shemale tops only play the active roll during anal sex and thus expect their male partners to be totally comfortable with playing the passive roll exclusively.

I am sure you are wondering which category, yours truly, Deelicious Dee, falls under. I happen to be a versatile shemale. : )~

Now will show you examples of shemales from each category using TS Dating.

Chipicosa is a typical bottom shemale



HeatherBrooke is a Top Shemale



In this excerpt from her profile she says...

I WANT A COMPLETE STRONG MAN ...(YOU HAVE TO BE A MAN ...NOT A SISY LOL)BUT A COMPLETE BOTTOM IN BED

Nayla is a versatile TS



In her profile she describes herself as...

SEXXXY HORNY TOP & BOTTOM, "AZTEC GODDESS"MISSTRES.

VersatileTS is another versatile shemale



She describes herself as...

sexy shemale who just so happens to enjoy the company of men!!!Versatile sexy and freaky, very open minded!!!

So now that you understand the meaning of top, bottom and versatile you have to decide which type of shemale interests you. Having a clear understanding of this will make it easier for you effectively focus on the type of shemale you want and avoid potentially embarrassing misunderstandings.

Some Shemales are highly sensitive about top, bottom, versatile sexuality. As I mentioned before, most Shemales are bottoms and want their male partners to be exclusively tops. Many shemale bottoms are completely turned off by versatile or bottom men. They feel that men who are versatile or bottoms are not as masculine as men who are tops or they just hate the idea of being anything other that a bottom during anal sex. I believe they are mistaken in this view but everyone has a right to their own opinion and preference.

In my opinion masculinity is not determined by ones like or dislike of playing the passive roll in anal sex. Some of my boyfriends have been the straightest, most masculine men you could imagine and they enjoyed be penetrated by me. : )~

In fact, anal sex has been steadily growing in popularity among heterosexual couples. Check this out...

So have you decided whether you want a bottom, top or versatile shemale? After you decide, you can find her at TS Dating!

Hugs & Kisses,

Dee

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Shemale Dating: The Video!

Hi Guys,

Break out the popcorn, relax and get ready to watch my brand new Shemale Dating Video! I hope you like it and that it motivates you to find the special Shemale lover that you know is waiting for you somewhere out there!

Hugs & Kisses,

Dee

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Shemale Dating: Online Dating Profile Secrets

Hi Guys,

I want to give you a couple of tips to assist you with online dating. Whether you are looking for a shemale or female you absolutely must do the following...

1) Have, at least, a clear face photo and a nice full length photo to place in your profile. When scanning dating profiles I am amazed by the number of profiles I find without any photo whatsoever. Profiles without photos are a complete waste of time in my opinion. The reason for having nice photos in your profile should be obvious.

2) You must know how to write an attractive profile. This is where most guys fail. Even if you have great photos in your profile, if your written profile is a boring pile of crap, your response will be severely limited. What you write in your profile is just as important as how you look in your photos when it comes to attracting shemales or females!

There are certain secrets you must learn about writing profiles if you want to be successful at online dating. I can't explain them in this short message. However I have arranged for you to get some free information that will explain exactly what the secrets are!

Just click the link below...

Online Dating Power

Hugs & Kisses

Dee

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Shemale Dating: Are You In The 27 Percent?

Hi Guys,

According to the latest shemale dating poll results 27% of men are interested in meeting a shemale for a serious relationship. So if you are in that 27 percent I woud like to you read a portion of the TS Dating profile of a woman by the name of Darlene.

Wow! She is really beautiful isn't she. I am kinda jealous LOL : )

Anyway just read the profile and take notes! If you are smart you will learn a lot things about us that will help you be successful in romantic relationship with a woman like us.

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IF U NOT GONNA MEET ME N TAKE ME OUT ON DATES, THEN DO NOT CONTACT ME. i'm over-it with online back-n-forth! i'm not doing ONLINE chit-chat whatsoever. If You Think Distance IS A Problem, Then Don't Bother My Profile Altogether. Thank You
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Just so you know - I am a transexual woman. I live and work 24/7 and relate to the world as you can see in my pictures. My pictures are an accurate depiction of my appearance, with no glamour photo assistance and no duplicity. What you see is what you get. I am pre-operative.

Lived my life as a woman for more than ten years now...i look like one, I act like one, and so, rightfully I identify myself as one. Just because I wasn't fortunate enough to be born as one externally, but instead had to set off an atomic bomb in my life to become a woman, should not mean that i am forever doomed to a life of ridicule and marginalisation. I greatly value honesty and integrity and find those who lack those qualities distasteful. I live in hope that I will find someone with the emotional maturity, robustness of ego, and moral fibre to find happiness with me.

The fact that I am transexual woman is not an indication of a deep level of kink, or a lack of moral fibre. Becoming who I am was a life or death response to a lifelong disconnect between external presentation and internal identity. My journey has required enormous sacrifice, pain and in-depth self discovery. If you have an issue with this - please keep your opinions to yourself. Unless you have lived my life, there is no way you could comprehend. And just because some of you out there that know a few transexuals, don't mean u know what we go thru day by day of our lives, struggling and trying so hard to live our lives the way we feel right, and the way we see fit, with how we feel deep down internally within ourselves...

The face that major amount of society that still sees us as freaks of nature, or a subject of discrimination, is why a large percentage of the transgender population has to revert to 'working' indifferently, the only way they know where they are appreciated n wanted, BUT most of all, to survive, to put food on their own tables. It hurts but if the society of the world still sees us as 'freaks', we'll do whatever it takes to Live, Survive n Support ourselves. Not to mention the 99.9% so-called heterosexual males, more so the married men, that actually were the ones that sees these transgender girls. Such... is Life!''

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OK thats it for today. I hope you learned something. If you would like to meet a woman like Darlene, she could be just a few mouse clicks away!

Hugs & Kisses

Dee

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Shemale Dating Update: 42% Want Sex!

Hi everyone! When I created the web poll that you see to your right I was pleasantly shocked and surprised that initial results showed well over 60% of men who participated in the poll were interested in shemales for a serious relationship!

However, as time passed the numbers gradually changed and then one day the poll showed a dramatic shift in sentiment! Currently the poll shows that over 42% of men want to meet a shemale for sex only and therefore view shemales as sex objects.

I was a bit dissapointed by this shift because I created this site promote real relationships between men and shemales.

Oh well, I can't ignore the overwelming reality most of the men visiting this site are driven by sexual urges. Now don't misunderstand me, I love sex just a much as anyone else but the hopeless romantic in me believes that sex without love is ultimately a deadend street.

Anyway as I pondered over the current poll results, I decided to create something that would appeal the men who are looking for sex.

Click the link below and discover how you can and "eat and meet" your way to all the sex you can handle.

Have Sex Like A Rockstar!

Hugs & Kisses

Dee

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Shemale Dating Poll Update

Sometimes after I released my poll yesterday, there was a technical problem that caused the poll to malfunction. That problem has now been resolved. So if you tried to cast your vote and encountered problems, go ahead and try it now.

So far I am very a happy with the poll results! Over 60% of those who participated in the poll are interested in Shemales for a committed relationship. This means that awareness and understanding of transsexualism is growing and we are no longer being viewed simply as sex freaks.

We are real people with real feelings who desire love, romance and commitment!

Hugs & Kissess

Dee
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Shemales On The Silver Screen

The movie clip below shows a scene from a movie entitled, The Crying Game, released in 1992. In this scene, the main character of the movie, Fergus, meets a Shemale (un-benouced to him) by the name of Dil in a London Pub called The Metro.

I posted this movie clip to illustrate a point. Before Internet Shemale Dating became popular, basically the only way a man could meet a Shemale was at an underground night club like the one depicted in the clip. These kind of clubs usually can been found in or around the Gay communities of major metropolitan areas.

Of course, the club scene is not for everyone and thanks to the Internet you can communicate with Shemales from around the world or in you local area from the comfort of your own home by using Shemale Dating Sites like TSDating.com.

If you are serious about dating Shemales then you owe it yourself to create a free membership account at TSDating.com because your future Shemale lover may by only a few mouse clicks away!

Hugs & Kisses

Dee
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P.S.

I you are interested in learning more about The Crying Game click HERE! I highly recommend it!

Shemales Are Simply Smarter

The "third sex" is the smartest sex of them all! I was doing some research on transsexual intelligence and I found this...

"Several interesting physical and mental indications have been statistically shown to occur in relation to transsexuality. One factor is intelligence, the transsexual is on average two standard deviations in intellect greater than the base population, and one standard deviation higher than those defined as homosexual. This probability of high intelligence is currently not explained, though there are suggestions that it may be the result of the unique and somewhat mixed brain 'wiring' of the transsexual, who may benefit from a combination of male and female structures or functions."

You can read the full article HERE.

When it comes to romance, we Shemales are attracted to intelligent men who are knowledgeable about transsexualism. So if you are interested in dating Shemales the smart thing to do is to educate yourself about transsexualism. You will be three steps ahead of those to don't and far more likely to find the Shemale lover of your dreams!

Hugs & Kisses

Dee
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My Shemale Dating Profile

Internet dating sites offer an easy and convenient way for to you to meet Shemales in your local area. Two key ingredients for making a Shemale dating site profile as effective as possible are...

1) Having a clear photograph

2) Detailed profile information

You need a photograph to attract attention initially. A detailed profile providing lots of information about you will serve to maintian and build upon the interest that your photo generated.

We are all attracted good looking people. However, it is the inner beauty of a person that makes relationships last. The way you share your inner beauty is through a detailed profile.

Last night, I created my own dating profile. By reading it you can learn a lot about me. I hope it will give you some good ideas for creating your own profile. Check out my profile at the link below...

Dee's Shemale Dating Profile

Hugs & Kisses

Dee
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Date A Shemale Official Blog

This is the official blog of Date-A-Shemale.com New information will be posted soon!

Hugs & Kisses

Dee

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